What is Ladder Theory?
This is just a brief from what i have read:
"A woman and a man can never be a best friend without attract to each other or by one party by coincidently or uncoincidently have feeling to their counterparts"....
From Laddertheory.com
The ladder theory is a funny, scientific explanation of how men and women are attracted to each other. It also covers such topics as why women sometimes just want to be friends but men always want sex. It is based upon many years of sociological field testing, and was first conceptualized in 1994 in Exeter, CA by Dallas Lynn with acknowledgements to Jared Whitson for his role in formalizing the theory.
What Else Ladder told?
IF A MAN FINDS YOU ATTRACTIVE YOU CANNOT BE FRIENDS
Many women want to argue this point and say things like " I have lots of guy friends." Maybe. There are exactly 3 cases Intellectual Whores has identified whereby a guy and a girl can be friends:
1. The guy is gay
2. The guy does not find you attractive
3. The guy already has a woman much higher than you on the ladder
Even Nietzsche knew this. Most guys know this intuitively. Most girls doubt. I have a challenge for all of you girls who still doubt. Pick a guy who does not meet any of the criterion on the above list that you think is your friend. Then ask yourself this question: If you were both alone at his place one night, and you excused yourself to the bathroom and came out naked and asked him to have sex with you would he:
1. Tell you he doesn't want to risk the beautiful friendship you have created with messy physical entanglements.
2. Comply.
Remember
...this only works if you are honest with yourself. Number one is of course something that guys hear all the time. I
Philosophy Day
Philosophy Day :
One of my clients told me this, said he was told by his former bos:
"Don't you eat and shit at the same place"
I ask what that supposed to mean
"Hmmm, don't have a relationship with your co-workers or at the same working place, trouble will come to you hahaha"
Interesting facts, maybe its true and maybe its not.
Mark Twain, do you know who he is? His the author of Adventures of Huckleberry Finn novel. He said
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover"
I said, hell with 20 years, in 10 years you will know whats you should have been done and what you cannot do but you do it. Its a traumatic feelings if you done something that you'll be regret someday.
One of my clients told me this, said he was told by his former bos:
"Don't you eat and shit at the same place"
I ask what that supposed to mean
"Hmmm, don't have a relationship with your co-workers or at the same working place, trouble will come to you hahaha"
Interesting facts, maybe its true and maybe its not.
Mark Twain, do you know who he is? His the author of Adventures of Huckleberry Finn novel. He said
"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover"
I said, hell with 20 years, in 10 years you will know whats you should have been done and what you cannot do but you do it. Its a traumatic feelings if you done something that you'll be regret someday.
Why i dont update my resume
I dont update my resume that frequent because after i update on Jobstreet.com less than a week bunch of phone calls from head hunter and few companies. There's some of the company that wanna me join them and ask to meet up for a negotiation. Syukur kepada Tuhan atas semua yang terjadi dan kejadian yang berlaku dan akan berlaku..AMIN !
